Now that you’ve been matched, what next?
1. Make sure that your cv is up-to-date and you have thought about what your skills, interests, and goals are.
2. Do some research on your mentor: his or her job, company, and industry.
This will help you to determine what types of questions you would like to ask when you meet. Your mentor will appreciate the fact that you have taken initiative, an important skill for both networking and job hunting. In some cases your mentor has sent a copy of his or her cv or bio; please ask a member of the mentoring committee if this information is available.
3. Prepare questions for your mentor by referring to the ideas in this Guide.
The suggested questions are tools to help you communicate with your mentor and are organized into different themes. They can help you to structure your e-mails, face-to-face conversations and phone calls. If you eventually run out of questions to ask, you can e-mail a member of the mentoring committee for further assistance.
4. Make your first contact.
Once you have been matched your mentor will be notified that you will be getting in contact with him or her within the next two weeks. When you receive the mentor’s contact information, you will also receive his or her preferred means and place of contact. Please respect the mentor’s wishes and contact him or her either at home or at work, either by e-mail or telephone as identified. If you contact your mentor by e-mail, cc a member of the mentoring committee to let her know that you have made contact. You should include either a brief bio or a copy of your cv for the purpose of introducing yourself and providing some additional information about your background. You could also let the mentor know your career goals (if you have them).
5. Have your first meeting.
If your mentor is not available to meet face-to face, you can also set-up a meeting via internet or phone. If you are meeting your mentor face-to-face, you can then establish a location that you would be most comfortable meeting in, for instance at a coffee shop or on your campus. The important thing is to be in a public place and to make sure that you are comfortable. If you do not feel comfortable, please do not hesitate to contact a member of the mentoring committee.
6. Number and frequency of meetings.
Each relationship will have its own rhythm. Participants should discuss and establish their own frequency of meeting or communicating. We suggest that contact should occur at least three times with the interval between no longer than six weeks.
7. Set up future meetings.
You can use the list of suggested questions in order to help you determine what the theme of your meetings will be. You can also use your meetings, phone calls and/or e-mails to discuss the steps that you have been taking based on the advice that your mentor has given you. You can use your meetings as follow-ups in order to make sure that you are on track, or you can exchange information with your mentor in order to provide him or her with upcoming research concerning his or her industry, inform him or her of events coming up, or both.
8. Send a thank-you note.
The relationship between you and your mentor will depend on your situation. You are welcome to take full advantage of this great opportunity. Usually the two of you will know when the usefulness of the mentoring relationship has reached its end. At that point, let a member of the mentoring committee know and, of course, thank your mentor for his or her time and advice. Remember to collect your
mentor’s contact information so that you can send him or her a courteous note of thanks.
9. Follow up with the mentoring committee.
The mentoring committee will be in contact with you, but please don’t hesitate to contact a member of the committee if you have any questions or concerns or just to communicate that everything is going well. We are here to support you through these steps.
Frequently asked questions
Suggested questions to ask your mentor
The keys to a successful mentoring relationship are your enthusiasm, preparation, and ability to communicate clearly. Before you meet your mentor, think about the type of information that would be helpful for you. The following questions are meant to help you get started.
Questions about your mentor’s career path and training:
- What kind of education or training do you have?
- What was your educational experience like?
- How did your education prepare you for your career? Are your studies at all related to your career?
- How did you manage the transition from education to work?
- How did you get your first job after graduation?
- What has your career path been like to date? Is it representative of most people in your position?
- How important is a graduate degree, designation, or additional certificate in your field?
- Are you a member of any professional orders or associations? Which ones do you feel are the most important to belong to?
- What are the future prospects like in your field? What trends do you see developing over the next few years?
- If you could change any aspects of your career, what would you change?
Questions about the mentor’s current position and responsibilities:
- How did you obtain your current position?
- What are your primary job responsibilities?
- What does a typical day or week in your job look like?
- What do you enjoy the most about your job? The least?
- What are the most challenging aspects of your job?
- What kind of professional development opportunities are available?
- Are there many opportunities for advancement in your position and organization?
- Who are the people who usually excel in your field or position? What personal qualities do you need to succeed?
Questions about working conditions:
- How many hours do you work in an average week?
- How much autonomy do you have in terms of what you focus on at work?
- What kind of supervision did you have when you were starting out?
- What kind do you have currently?
- How is your performance evaluated?
- What is the average starting salary in your field?
- How much flexibility do you have in terms of dress, hours, vacation, or location?
Questions relating to your current situation and future goals:
- What advice would you like to have heard when you were starting out?
- How would you recommend I try out your line of work while I am still a student?
- Does your organization offer volunteer or internship opportunities for students who are looking for related experience?
- Do you have any recommendations with regard to useful courses to take or extracurricular activities to be involved with?
- Are there any other fields or jobs you would suggest I research or explore?
- How do people find out about job openings in your field? Are they advertised? If so, where?
- When should I start applying for positions and forwarding my resume?
- How is a typical job interview in your industry conducted?
- Is there anyone else in your field you would recommend I talk to?
- When I call him or her, may I mention that you referred me?